Hello. I'm Chela, I'm 21 years old. I live in Madrid. I'm an ENFP. This is my main blog. I pretty much post whatever i want. Sometimes it's Mila Kunis, sometimes it's kittens and when I'm drunk I forget to be cool and reblog a bunch of 1D. I also write sometimes.





im a bad person who thinks bad thoughts like ‘ew what is that girl wearing’ and then remember that im supposed to be positive about all things and then think ‘no she can wear what she wants, fuck what other people say damn girl u look fabulous’ and…




i find it interesting that when it comes to liking girls I’m just like GIRLS ALL GIRLS YES PERFECT GIRLS but with boys i’m like you must fit criteria 1-9 but 9 is optional only if you completely fill criteria 10-13 with a non-optional essay on 21st century sexism due by 5am

I don’t call that interesting. More like “prejudice” “discrimination” or “inherent bias”

could someone please come pick up their crying child

Zayn Malik Appreciation Weekday 4: favourite relationship
: IS PERFECT lol perfects the top 1 u can’t be more perfect that’s like saying I’m betterer he he :p


I remember the day I realized all those “funny” videos and clips from shows like Jerry Springer and Maury of young teen and pre-teen girls talking about their promiscuity and describing their older male sex partners to a booing audience were basically videos of child rape victims being degraded, mocked, and blamed for being sexualized and raped by much older men.

I HATED those shows when I was younger. I would just frown at the screen and feel sorry for them because they were real people with problems being ridiculed. Like even if they weren’t victims of a crime, riduculing the problems of people I don’t actually know just weirds me out.



real reasons bisexual women are more likely to end up in long-term relationships with men:

  1. huge amounts of societal pressure to be heterosexual or at least hetero passing
  2. rewards, both legal and social, of heterosexual marriage
  3. fear of coming out as bisexual, except in anonymous self-reporting…